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Please see first blog entry for Kylie's initial journey through CDH. This blog was created to update friends and family of Kylie's progress and to see what is happening in the life of the Dudley's currently.
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1/5/2009

Extra thoughts please...

Please add some extra thoughts for Kylie tomorrow as she is going to have an MRI before she begins growth hormone shots to rule out anything and to get a baseline.  She will be intubated for this procedure.  She is a trooper and will do great, I just still get a little anxious when they talk of intubation.  Thanks so much for checking in!!
12/20/2008

Once again.....

Kylie and I have been sick off and on for about two weeks and this past Monday I felt we were all ok but...Wednesday night Kylie started with a cough and it progressively worsened after that.  Friday morning she was just coughing non stop with a dry cough.  They say dry coughs are worse because it means nothing is breaking up.  I of course tried very hard to get Kylie into see her pulmonologist that day but could not get an appointment so we had to go with a pediatrician in the group.  I really thought Kylie was just having some allergies and drainage causing the cough but, I was wrong.  Her SPO2 was 93% which is low for Kylie.  They began doing a breathing treatment and said she sounded "crackly".  After the breathing treatment they would see if her SPO2 came up.  I figured we were on our way to the hospital after her O2 was low because she was not seeing the pedi. that knows we can and have taken care of Kylie at much worse conditions.  The nurse came back in to check her saturations and it was 96% so they sent us home with breathing treatments every four hours and an antibiotic for double ear infections.  Kylie has been so well for so long it just reminds me that at times she is still fragile and something small for some kids can turn into alot for CDH kiddos.  I am reminded of how lucky we are during these holiday seasons to have our sweet little Kylie.  We have also made a decision to go ahead with growth hormone shots for Kylie.  We should begin those within the next couple of months.  They have decided to conduct a repeat MRI to take a look at her brain to see if there is anything that could have happened to any part of it when she was critical.  I think the main concern would be upon her transport to the hospital in which she had to be transferred for ECMO.  Her saturations dropped in the 40's for some time.  Kylie is our miracle and we will do what we need to do for her success.  She will have six shots per week for years.  I am excited to see the growth.  Take care and have a wonderful holiday season!! Kylie is anxiously awaiting Santa this year....she cannot stay out of the presents under the tree.  Needless, to say we don't have any presents under the tree right now :)!! By the way for those that know about Chris' recent job loss, he received an offer last Friday for a new job......we are blessed in all kinds of ways!! Thanks for checking in!!
 
Julie
7/17/2008

Reality

Just reflecting on a conversation I had with a new friend that I can't get off my mind....  As I was walking with a new friend of mine I came to the realization that not everyone realizes just what we have been through with our CDH journey.  It is a great feeling to see that we look so normal in other people's eyes.  Chris, Kylie and I were taking a walk Monday night and we met our neighbors walking as well.  Kylie and the other two children began running, playing and just being kids.  Chris noticed Kylie getting a bit winded and walked to her and told her to calm down and take a break.  Her face was red and sweaty and she was breathing heavier than normal, not a big deal to most kids.  Kylie slowed very little and took a breather and we all began walking back home.  Chris kept on looking back at Kylie and making sure she was ok, probably just looking a little overprotective.  So the next night the neighbor and I were walking and just talking to pass time during our walk and we were talking about Kylie's slow growth and just how little she really is compared to other 4 1/2 year olds.  The lady says to me "oh was she full term or early".  I proceeded to say she was 36 weeks but that was of course not the problem.  I said "oh you mean you don't know about Kylie" and she said no.  So I told her the story in very short form and she said "now that explains why Chris is so protective of her when we are around....I told my husband he needs to let her go she is 4 1/2 (refering to the incident Monday night)".  After all was explained she just couldn't believe what she had gone through and sure understood Chris after that evening.  Anyway, I just reflect back and think she is so fortunate to have made it.  I reflect back to other babies with CDH that are not so fortunate and it breaks my heart.  We still worry about the unknown for Kylie as every parent does.  I worry deeply about her slow growth and am always trying to feed her a little more.  I am sure I look silly at times trying to hand feed my 4 1/2 year old but it is what she needs and has to have sometime.  I worry about her starting Kinder in a year and will she be ready.  Her fine motor skills lack and she gets OT twice a week for this.  Sometimes I hope her therapist is doing everything she can do for her and do I need to look for another one.  It is hard and my mind worries alot still but in reality we are "normal" and I am so fortunate.  We love Kylie so much and just pray for her growth and strength as time goes on. 
 
Sorry for not blogging in so long.....our summer has been wonderful.  I am off in the summers and get to spend lots of time with little Kylie.  I recently received a promotion at work and will be doing something a little different.  It is exciting and scary all at the same time.  Kylie is taking swimming lessons and of course doing gymnastics.  She is ready to go back to her preschool to see her "friends".  We have had a great summer and will post pictures of our trip to Galveston.  We also just got back from a family reunion and that was fun.  Take care and I will update sooner than later this time.  Thanks for checking in-
 
2/17/2008

Kylie's arm!!

Well, the orthopedist did confirm that Kylie broke her humerous....she has a sling.  It is the bone that is in between your clavicle and elbow.  It is at the very top of the bone by her shoulder so a cast was not needed.  The ortho. said that it was a very clean break and in kids heals in no time.  Her pedi. said it was broken through the growth plate, but it was not.  They retested a sample of urine and found no sugar in this sample....YEAH!! So, needless to say, Kylie is wonderful and keeping her sling on just perfect.  She is such a good girl.  She goes back to the ortho. in two weeks to see the progress. 
 
Kylie went to help with a high school dance last night for a little bit and she had a blast.  It is funny to see the students in that atmosphere.  She wanted to see the pretty dresses the girls were wearing.  Most of all she wanted to dance on the dance floor.  So this morning she is all in to dancing and has all of the radios on in the house.  Too funny!!! We are having a "dance party".  She didn't quite understand what a dance was and her response was "I will stand on my dot". This statement comes from her dance class in which she has to stand on a dot when they are being taught.  HMMMMMMMM......I think Kylie has a hard time standing on her dot.  We have heard that way too much!!! 
 
Well, enjoy your Sunday!  We have beautiful weather here today and plan on spending some time outside today.  Have a wonderful week!! 
 
Julie ;)
 
 
2/9/2008

Happy Birthday, Kylie!!!!

Well, I cannot believe it but Kylie is four year's old as of 02/03/08!! What a wonderful Birthday party we had for our sweet girl.  We then enjoyed her actual birthday alone with the three of us.  Kylie was so excited about her big day that she did not sleep much the night before her party.  She has really gotten into having a party now.  We just had lots of friends and family over for the big day and enjoyed food and friendship.  She has just come so far and we feel so blessed to have her.  She is truly amazing.  Audrey Miller who Kylie calls "Baby Audrey" came to her party as well.  She is just absolutely beautiful and I always enjoy catching up with her mother.  It is nice to have her to talk with about CDH issues. 
 
Now for the bad news....Kylie broke her left arm and we are going to the orthopedist (sp??) this Monday to find out more information and what the treatment will be.  It is the humerus (???) bone between her elbow and shoulder and it is broken through the growth plate.  We found out Friday afternoon about 4:30 and were unable to get an appt. with the orthopedist that afternoon.  Kylie also has to have a repeat urine test as she had sugar in her urine sample that was taken.  We will know more about that Monday after the repeat test.  So, needless to say, the four year old check up was a little rough.  I know these are probably normal "children things" but I find myself worrying again.  I always worry a little about her, I just feel I have been worrying alot less about things because things have been so wonderful this year.  The ped. also wants us to follow up with the endocrinologist again to see about possible growth hormone testing and did give us a list of different doctors we could try.  I think we probably will try again with someone different.  

I will post pictures of her party soon!! Again, I appreciate you checking in and always for the prayers for Kylie and all CDH kiddos and angels.  We are so proud of Kylie and can't believe she could possibly be four years old....Happy Birthday sweet girl!!!!

Julie  ;)
 
1/1/2008

Happy New Year!!! 2008

Well, it has been a really long time since our last update.  Happy 2008, it seems I remember like yesterday...what are we going to call the year 2000?  How will we say that?  We moved in to our house early Novemeber and absolutely love it.  We are pretty much situated and unpacked.  We had a wonderful Christmas in our new house.  Kylie got lots of Little People toys and Strawberry Shortcake dolls.  My parents got her a little golf cart that she absolutely loves to drive.  We will post a picture of that as soon as we get our pictures developed as our memory card is full AGAIN!
 
Everything is going great with Kylie and she will soon be turning "4"!  We cannot believe she is that old.  Time flies way too fast.  She has had two different attempts of growth hormone testing both being unsuccessful as they couldn't get an IV in to infuse the HGH and pull back for frequent blood tests.  Very frustrating two days that Kylie had to go through and we have made the decision to wait until the summer to try again to determine if she needs the growth hormones.  The doctor is just concerned at how little she has grown in length and is not keeping up with her own growth curve.  She has never been on the charts for height or weight, but the doctor was satisfied because she was progressing on her own growth curve until the last year.  We will see.  Kylie continues to progress in preschool, choir and with her gymnastics. 
 
We wish everyone a happy and successful 2008.  We are excited to start another new year!!!  
 
Thanks for checking in-
Chris, Julie and Kylie :) 
6/27/2007

Surgery

Today Kylie had surgery to reconstruct her g-tube site, meaning after her feeding tube was removed last May her stoma just never healed correctly.  Her doctors recommended this surgery for last fall or summer and we opted to wait for the summer.  She did great and woke up quickly after surgery.  She got to come home about four hours later. She was a little sick to her stomach for a while but is now playing and eating again.  She continues to amaze me daily.  She is such a tough little girl and the nurses just adored her because she just smiles and never gets too upset.  We are tired and I promise I will update with pictures and more news soon.  I have really been slacking with the updates and hope to pick this up again.  Thanks for checking in and have a wonderful evening.
4/30/2007

Great news!!

It has been such a long time since I have posted and a lot has happened at the Dudley house.  First, we sold our house and have to start moving this Thursday and be out of the house by Saturday.  Needless to say, we have been very busy cleaning out and moving boxes to storage.  We will be staying at my parent's house until our house is built.  Kylie is beyond excited about staying with Nana and Grandpa.  I am not sure what Kylie really thinks about all of this but she has been so good as we have been packing and all.  We go out to see our lot quite often and she likes doing that and I think it will be fun to see how she reacts as the house is getting built.  Our dogs are really not sure what to think and just seem very worn out. 
 
The most exciting news is that Kylie has been dismissed from the pulmonologist.  Isn't that crazy and amazing.  I was just waiting to hear the doctor say no more meds and then he said follow up as needed.  I just sat there stunned for a minute.  They did her yearly x-ray of her lungs and diaphragm to see how the patch was holding and I was amazed at the size of her lungs and how clear they seemed.  She has just come such a long way in her short life.  She just amazes my daily physically and mentally.  She talks and talks so much.  Her last visit to the endocrinologist wasn't quite as great as she is still concerned about her growth.  We will go back in three months and they will reevaluate the need for growth hormone shots with extensive testing if she doesn't see better growth over the next few months...so GROW Kylie Grow!!
 
All in all Kylie is doing fantastic and so are we.  We are excited about Baby Audrey's first birthday party Saturday and hope to have everything done so that we can enjoy the party.  I will post more often.  I have just been so busy and just try to keep up with all the blogs/emails right now.  Take care and thanks for checking in on us!!
 
Julie
2/5/2007

Happy Birthday Kylie

Kylie is 3!!! I cannot believe three years have passed already.  She is just growing up so fast.  Kylie has been saying she is three for about two months now and has just been very excited about her "party".  We always have the cake and presents on our dining room table, so she has been pulling out the chair and sitting in it and saying "party" for about one month now.  She is just so funny and the happiest one could ever be.  I must say she is one that is so excited about life. 
 
I was out of town on a conference the whole week prior to her birthday and was so excited to see her Friday when I got home.  This is only the second time I have really ever been away from Kylie for a couple of days.  I got to go to San Antonio for a conference.  We had a good time and got to stay on the riverwalk so that was nice and enjoyed lots of conversation with my co-workers, not to mention the great mexican food. 
 
Kylie's birthday was Saturday and we began with pancakes and candles.  She knew exactly what to do with the candles after we sang to her.  She was just beaming.  She then went to gymnastics and came home for a quick nap.  She just couldn't calm down enough for the nap and soon was up ready to "party" as she says.  We enjoyed lots of family and friends and great food.  My mother (nana) cooked some really great chili and of course we had fritos, hotdogs and queso with all of the chips and a great Chocolate cake just for Kylie.  Kylie is a true girl and absolutely LOVES chocolate.  Anyway, Chris and I relived (word???) three years ago at about 5:35 pm when this wonderful little girl came into our lives.  We then of course talked about the whole evening and when she was placed on ECMO.  We just looked at one another and said that is the past.  We were just saying how much truly everyone just really loves Kylie and cares for her and we so appreciate all of friends and family.  The evening ended with our true friends helping us clean so that someone could look at our house.  By the way, we have put our house up for sale.  We are planning to move about 10 minutes away into a  house that is on the golf couse.  We are so excited!!!! (as long as our house sales)...It will take about 10 months to build.  I am spending the day with my mom and Kylie so off to get ready.  Thanks for checking in and have a wonderful day!!!!
 
Julie
1/1/2007

Venting

First of all, I hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!! I know we have all been counting our blessings in this house for such a special miracle Kylie.  She had a wonderful Christmas and was so into Santa this year.  We thouroughly enjoyed our time with her.  Chris is back to work tomorrow and has been a little sad today.  Fortunately, I have another week off...YEAH! I guess I will do some house cleaning and just have some more fun with Kylie. 
 
Ok, so I don't usually use this to vent but today I am going to.  I think it is really hard for some people to understand what Kylie (and many other sick children) has been through in her short life and I am a bit of an advocate, as I am supposed to be, for her.  I would not call myself totally over protective, but in some people's eyes I guess I am.  There was a little situation today that happened and left me feeling like crap.  I won't go in to all of the details but, basically I will ask if a child that is coming to play with Kylie is feeling better or is sick if I know for a fact that they have been sick. Today, the response was are you worried about Kylie catching something?? and I said as a matter of fact, yes I am.  I said I hate being like this it is just that for Kylie I would just rather not take a chance especially when it is respiratory.  I was told what was not contagious and then was asked about when Kylie was going to start preschool.  I know exactly what the person was getting at with that question.  Yes, Kylie will start preschool when we all (doctors and family) think she is good and ready and I know she will pick up little germs from school and do realize that she is going to get sick.  I do think as many of her doctors have told me that the more time she has to heal right now the better off that lungs will be.  I reminded the person that Kylie gets lots of socialization with different activities and such during the week.  I guess I just always have in the back of my mind the doctors specifically telling me if you can help it please wait on school or daycare until she gets stronger and older.  The more we can keep her well the better.  Right now, Kylie just plays like any other child and really looks so normal that you would not even know what she has been through, but it is always in the back of my mind and I will be her advocate.  So, I leave this post feeling a little better and know that some people will know exactly what I am talking about and others will just think quit complaining.....anyway have a great evening.  
12/20/2006

Random Thought

For those who read this I would like to ask a question:
 
If there was a book out there that included a humbling story of a survivor of CDH and it would help educate other families, would you buy it or do you think other families going through this or about to go through this would you/they buy it??
 
Anyways just a thought.  The reason I am asking is because there are not too many books about CDH and survivors of CDH. 
 
Please let me know what you think or what your thoughts are.
 
Thanks,
 
Chris Dudley
11/24/2006

Update

While sitting through a red light about five times last night trying to make a left turn, I began reflecting on this time last year. Last year at the same time Kylie and I were spending the last night that we had to at Our Children's House at Baylor for the inpatient feeding program that she went through. She was discharged Thanksgiving Day at 10AM. Kylie successfully went throught the program in about six weeks and did beautifully all the way through it, however, it was just six more weeks of being away from home...but absolutely worth it in the end. I remember feeling a bit apprehensive, to say the least, that feeding Kylie was now solely in our hands with the support of the clinic as far as sending in weekly menus of what exactly Kylie had eaten and of course the weight checks. I just hoped and prayed so much that we wouldn't have to resort back to the tube feeds because I knew that would have been a huge set back and maybe even have caused the behavioral/oral aversion to come back that Kylie had developed after being tube fed for such a long time along with the spitting up multiple times a day that she had done. I just remember walking into the door to my parent's with Kylie and seeing everyone in our family so excited to see her and all the food that she would be able to enjoy that day for Thanksgiving. I would dream of what she would like the best about the meal. Needless to say, Kylie never had to return to tube feeds and her g-tube was removed about six months after the program. She is still very tiny and has difficulty gaining weight, but she eats like a horse and eats such a variety of foods as well. She has probably only spit up one time since her G-tube was taken out.  Thanks to all of the wonderful therapist that worked with Kylie to help her eat.

I hope each and every one of you have a wonderful Thanksgiving!!!

Update on Kylie:

Halloween: Kylie was a bumble bee for Halloween and was so cute and really enjoyed the evening.  We attended a church function the Sunday before and then a Halloween party at one of our friends house and then Halloween night.....Needless to say, Kylie was ready to retire the bumble bee costume.  She was quite a trooper on Halloween night because we actually drove to both sets of grandparents' house, great-grandparent's house and then to a friend's house to show Kylie off and ended the evening late.  She did great and was so happy to eat chocolate.  The girl already loves chocolate and doesn't even gain weight from it!!!!! 

College Station - Aggie trip: We went to College Station for a weekend.  My sorority was having a reunion.  It was so fun to get to see people that I haven't seen since I graduated from College (10 years ago!!!!! UGH!) and of course to get to see some of my close friends that I still keep in touch with.  We had lots of fun!! Kylie didn't last too long at the evening dinner and Chris and Kylie ended up enjoying the evening in the hotel room.  I stayed up with some of my girlfriends talking about the past and all the good times we had.  We got to tour the sorority house where I lived for a year and Kylie loved seeing the pretty house and was just hilarious running around there.  I just pictured her there 16 years from now (no pressure Kylie..j/k).  

Kylie is doing well and has had a few issues with allergies.  We have not had to go to the doctor and have just had to get a prescription decongestant called in.  All is well and Kylie is still weighing in at 22.8...we continue to work on the weight gain.  Kylie's speech therapist has gone to consulation only...YEAH!!! Kylie is currently in the process of being tested to see if she qualifies for any services offered through the school district since she is turning 3 in February.  She just had an Audiological evaluation attempted but they couldn't complete it because she had too much fluid in her middle ear.  The doctor said this would just take time to clear since she has had lots of issues with allegies and congestion lately.  Not a big deal and the audiologist didn't think Kylie had any major kind of hearing loss or anything.  The Audiologist knew so much about ECMO and the research that is out there about the linkage of hearing loss and ECMO.  That has always concerned me and I have always wanted her to have a formal hearing eval.  I remember when we found out about Kylie's CDH that we read so much research about ECMO because we knew that might be a possibility and I remember being concerned about the hearing loss.  He thought it was great that Kylie pronounces her sounds so well and that she continues to pick up vocabulary and language daily.  We are still trying to figure out where Kylie is going to go to preschool next year. We have officially started the potty training and I will let you know more about that as she progresses. 

That is about all in the Dudley household...please know that we think of all the CDH families daily. Take care!!!!

Julie

 

11/2/2006

Pictures from College Station and Halloween

Here are some pictures from our trip to College Station and from Halloween.
 
Julie will updated everyone on our trip to Aggie Land.
 
God bless and pray for the CDH babies
 
Chris
10/2/2006

Great weekend!!!

What a great weekend we had, and I must say I am kind of sad as I sit and type about it....I am sad it is over!!  I just really enjoy my time with my family and especially little Kylie.  We are so fortunate to have her.  What a true blessing!  Well, it first started about Friday at 2:45...it was nice to be leaving work and feeling like I am a bit caught up.  With my job, the first six weeks is always really hard and a bit stressful.  Well, it has been six weeks and we have had tons of meetings already and lots of evaluation reports that have been completed and interpreted...YEAH!! I know lots more to go but, for me, the stessful ones are down for the year!!  Next, I came home to sweet Kylie who was in the best mood.  We sat and read for about one hour...she absolutely LOVES to read.  We finished the evening playing outside and Kylie slept like a rock! Saturday we visited with my grandparents and some neighbor friends that have a son about the same age as Kylie and they just really play great together, so we all had a ball and great conversation.  The only bummer is that the GREAT AGGIES (WHOOP!!) lost the game in the last minute (SSSSSS!!).  Sunday after church we just hung out and watched the Cowboy game and cleaned up the house.  Kylie really gets into the cleaning thing and enjoys helping!!
 
AND Today we went to the fair.  We got the day off for Fair Day.  I haven't been to the fair since I was pregnant with Kylie.  It was so nice just to think that we felt comfortable taking Kylie to the fair this year.  Our life seems to be so normal this year (I don't want to jinx it).  It was great fun, however, it was so HOT!! The only good thing about it being hot I guess is that I didn't eat so much.  Kylie was funny because most of the time when we would watch a show she would just be watching the people watching the show instead of the show.  She is a trip!! She absolutely loved the livestock and the petting zoo.  We saw a pig that was 1,147 lbs. Isn't that just sick!! I had a hard time understanding why they would do that to a poor animal.  It said it ate 20lbs. of feed per day.  WOW!!! Needless to say, he was the size of a big cow.  Kylie really didn't know what to think of it. Anyway, I am glad we took her, but I must say I was so happy to be home and everyone showered and bathed.  NICE to have air conditioning.  I ended the evening with an awesome workout class and now I am watching The Bachelor while Chris is playing a softball game.  Kylie was glad to go to bed tonight. 
 
We saw her pulmonologist last week and he just thought Kylie looked amazing.  He is just a positive man and always makes Kylie feel so comfortable upon examination. He just said to get her through the winter and he would consider trying to take her off of her last treatment that she gets only once a day for a preventative. So, that was awesome news and very welcomed.   The last two winters we were at his office once a month for synagis and this year we don't have an appointment scheduled until March!!! What a difference!
 
Kylie continues to make great strides with her speech and is beginning to put three words together for a sentence.  She is counting to ten and tonight started in on some teens!! She is really starting to color alot more than ever.  She is a true miracle and I love her so much!! Thanks for checking in with us and please keep all the CDH kiddos and families in your thoughts.  We are fortunate to have our Kylie and I think of that every day! Have a great week!
 
Julie
 
9/14/2006

My apologies for being late

Ok I do apologize for those who have been waiting for this.  I have uploaded the video as you can see.  There is also a link to view it as well.  Either way you can see the video.
 
If you watch on the media player I have uploaded....right click on the media player, it should bring up an options menu...find ZOOM then make it full screen if you like.
 
If you don't want to do that then that is fine too...you can also click on the link and it will take you to the webpage where I have it loaded on.
 
Thanks for being patient...I know Julie has been.
 
 
God bless all and please keep in prayer and thoughts all the CDH babies out there today.
 
Chris